Love And Hip Hop New York's Cyn Santana Says Erica Mena Relationship 'Not Meant To Be,' Says Bow Wow Engagement Confused Her

"Love and Hip Hop: New York" reality star, Cyn Santana says that she wasn't meant to be with Erica Mena after she announced her engagement to rapper Shad "Bow Wow" Moss.

After Monday night's episode, a sneak peek shows Cyn crying to Erica about her quickie engagement to Bow Wow following their break up, the model tweeted, "You're not "meant to be" with everyone you once loved. Some people are just lessons." She added, "Stop dwelling on people... stop dwelling on the past. Focus on your happiness. You matter now."

In the interview VH1, Cyn said that she found out along with the world when the engagement was confirmed during BET Hip Hop Awards red carpet interview, "I was actually at a bar with one of my best friends, and somebody sent me a picture, it was a screenshot of her hand."

Cyn admitted that she was shocked at the news and "didn't understand the picture ... and then of course you get on Twitter and everyone's writing to you and telling you." She added, "Definitely, it was a bit difficult, you know I was confused. I was confused for a long time, a few days."