RHOC Tamra Barney, Gretchen Rossi Fight Costs Her Invite To Lavish Wedding? Did Vicki Master Plan Work In Separating Close Friends?

The "Real Housewives of Orange County" reality star Tamra Barney made it clear that no everyone on the reality show cast will be invited to her lavish wedding to her third husband, Eddie Judge... not even Gretchen Rossi.

According to RadarOnline.com, Gretchen got a last minute invite to the wedding held at Regis Monarch Beach Resort in Dana Point, California.

Gretchen made sure that Barney's bachelorette party in Mexico would be one to remember until Vicki Gunalson tried to out do her and keep her out of the festivities. Vicki seems to have it out for Gretchen off of pure jealousy of her growing relationship with the bride, but a source says Gretchen and Tamra had a falling out that almost cost Gretchen an invite, "Tamra and Gretchen have had a difficult relationship over the last few months and Tamra was insistent that Gretchen would not be there... not invited."

The source added, "But at the eleventh hour, she changed her mind. It was a change of heart. She realized just how important it was to have her there, despite all the petty drama."

Due to the recent bickering between Tamra and Gretchen they will not be besties in the near future, "Off-screen, Gretchen and Tamra definitely are not as close as they used to be," the source continued, "If the wedding was 12 months earlier, she would have been standing alongside Tamra at the altar as a member of the bridal party, but after all that has gone us, Gretchen just didn't make the cut."

The mini three-part series of Tamra's OC Wedding will premiere Monday, September 2 at 8pm ET/PT.