While more than 30 states now agree that a same-sex marriage is wholly equivalent to any other, the autumn nuptials of designer Joseph Altuzarra and his boyfriend, Seth Weissman, were evidence that things are still a bit different, at least in their case. Most bridegrooms, for instance, do not create mood boards for the hair and makeup of their "groomsmaids," as Altuzarra calls them. Neither does the typical groom fear that a dear friend "is going to show up in leather shorts and a T-shirt," an anxiety much relieved by the sight of groomsman Alexander Wang wearing a tuxedo on the big day. Read More »