Canadian bleep-bloop musician Claire Boucher, better known by her stage name of Grimes, has had an on-again, off-again love affair with Tumblr. On the one hand, the platform is a major part of the reason why we are speaking her name right now (her early compositions spread around the site like wildfire). On the other she's regularly threatened to leave the Tumblrverse behind and has made disparaging remarks about the service. However, Boucher's dicey at best relationship to Tumblr didn't stop her from posting a full-on, anti-sexism manifesto to her Tumblog yesterday.
In a post titled "I don't want to have to compromise my morals in order to make a living" the electronic music producer puts a whole host of men on blast.
"i dont want to be molested at shows or on the street by people who perceive me as an object that exists for their personal satisfaction," Grimes writes (capitalization hers). " i dont want to live in a world where im gonna have to start employing body guards because this kind of behavior is so commonplace and accepted and I'm pissed that when I express concern over my own safety it's often ignored until people see firsthand what happens and then they apologize for not taking me seriously after the fact..."
Grimes attacks message board "creeps" whom she sees "discussing whether or not they'd "f*ck" me."
She also throws shade at men who offer to help her out without being asked.
" as if i did this by accident and i'm gonna flounder without them," Boucher quipped.
Grimes makes many valid points and the entire text is really a must-read. The only sticking point for me is the following:
"i dont want to be infantilized because i refuse to be sexualized"
Now, don't get me wrong. If people anywhere are infantilizing Claire Boucher as a person, that is wrong and should be stopped. However, if they are using infantile descriptions for the music she produces, I see no harm there.
There is no denying that the voice she uses on her productions is babyish. She coos. It's a fact.
Other than that the post is a rock-solid take down of terrible, sexist behavior. Read it in full below or check it out on Grimes Tumblr:
I don't want to have to compromise my morals in order to make a living
i dont want my words to be taken out of context
i dont want to be infantilized because i refuse to be sexualized
i dont want to be molested at shows or on the street by people who perceive me as an object that exists for their personal satisfaction
i dont want to live in a world where im gonna have to start employing body guards because this kind of behavior is so commonplace and accepted and I'm pissed that when I express concern over my own safety it's often ignored until people see firsthand what happens and then they apologize for not taking me seriously after the fact...
I'm tired of men who aren't professional or even accomplished musicians continually offering to 'help me out' (without being asked), as if i did this by accident and i'm gonna flounder without them. or as if the fact that I'm a woman makes me incapable of using technology. I have never seen this kind of thing happen to any of my male peers
I'm tired of the weird insistence that i need a band or i need to work with outside producers (and I'm eternally grateful to the people who don't do this)
im tired of being considered vapid for liking pop music or caring about fashion as if these things inherently lack substance or as if the things i enjoy somehow make me a lesser person
im tired of being congratulated for being thin because i can more easily fit into sample sizes from the runway
im tired of people i love betraying me so they can get credit or money
I'm sad that it's uncool or offensive to talk about environmental or human rights issues
I'm tired of creeps on message boards discussing whether or not they'd "fuck" me
I'm tired of people harassing my dancers and treating them like they aren't human beings
I'm sad that my desire to be treated as an equal and as a human being is interpreted as hatred of men, rather than a request to be included and respected (I have four brothers and many male best friends and a dad and i promise i do not hate men at all, nor do i believe that all men are sexist or that all men behave in the ways described above)
im tired of being referred to as 'cute,' as a 'waif' etc., even when the author, fan, friend, family member etc. is being positive
(fyi)
waif |wāf|
noun
1 a homeless and helpless person, esp. a neglected or abandoned child: she is foster-mother to various waifs and strays .
cute |kyo͞ot|
adjective
1 attractive in a pretty or endearing way: a cute kitten.
I'm tired of people assuming that just because something happens regularly it's ok
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i have so much love for everyone who has been cool and amazing. I have the best job in the world but I'm done with being passive about any kind of status quo that allows anyone to suffer or to be disrespected
Grimes world tour is officially over, the visions album cycle is officially over, and I'm now taking the time to overhaul everything and make it better
much love to every fan - stuff can be lame sometimes but its really cool to have this support <3
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